woensdag 12 september 2012

The Perfect Date

Ask a woman what the perfect date is and the answer will probably run along the lines of a nice evening out with a leisurely dinner and good conversation. Maybe followed by a nice moonlit walk hand in hand with her handsome man. Stopping for a drink or desert and more conversation/flirting. In other words a slow romantic build up that may or may not lead to something more intimate.
Ask a guy that same question and the answer is pretty obvious, particularly when he's talking to his friends. Did he get to do the horizontal tango.
Which just goes to show that a man and a woman at the same place and time sharing the same experience are thinking two different things.
So then the question becomes does the perfect date exist exist? Probably only in our minds as we map out how we would like it to go, but reality has a way of screwing with even the best laid plans.
But that doesn't mean we can't try to have the perfect date. And it doesn't have to be a one time thing because lets face it, the whole purpose of a first date (unless things go horribly wrong) is to have a second date and many after that. And while not every date will be perfect or as good as the one before it, with a little planning and advice there's no reason we can't shoot for that high a standard every time.
There are a whole lot of guides to dating and dating ideas out there. And that's a good thing, particularly for men. Because you men know how hard it is to come up with original ideas, and that in and of itself is what makes a perfect date. ORIGINAL IDEAS! You have to change it up, you can't be doing the same thing, going to the same place every time. That's not a date, that's repetition. And nothing sets off the boring meter better than repetition.
One other thing to remember is you don't have to use any dating ideas word for word. In other words, don't try to copy exactly what the date guru has put forth. Take that idea and give it your own personal twist. What that is is up to you, but your date wants you to be you. So get your date ideas, even if they aren't yours originally adding your own personality to the idea will make it yours and that makes it as close to perfect as you can get.

vrijdag 24 augustus 2012

Top 10 Online Dating Tips

Online dating allows individuals, couples and groups to meet online to develop a social, romantic or sexual relationship. Internet dating services provide unmoderated match making through the use of the Internet and personal computers.
Here are 10 tips to help in your quest for love online:
1. Create an introduction of yourself designed to attract the opposite sex. Don’t overdo it, put just the necessary information about yourself, and keep from revealing too much personal information. This is for your protection.
2. Avoid using too many adjectives in your profile. Keep descriptions basic and simple. Remember you are as much a stranger to others as they are to you.
3. List your interests and include specific details. If you write about a hobby, hiking for example, list specific places where you’ve hiked, or the hiking clubs you’ve joined.
4. Create a unique identity on the web. The online dating system is full of profiles that say almost the exact same thing. If you imitate this, you’ll be lost in the crowd. Always maintain your individuality to create an effective online dating presence.
5. Leave the clichés to everyone else. Be creative enough so that you get attention and are able to experience what online dating is all about. But try to be as original, and sincere as you can.
6. Try not to brag, or brag too much. You won’t impress anyone with a rude attitude. Self-confidence is fine, but excessive bragging is definitely a TURN-OFF. If you’re good looking that will show in your photo, you have no need to use these words in your profile. If you claim intelligence, then be sure that your grammar is impeccable and your diction flawless.
7. Nobody responds to negativity. It’s not a good idea for depressed, lonely, frustrated or those just out of an unhappy relationship to plunge right into dating online since the negative emotions are likely to surface. People will shy away from reading your melodramatic profile. Online dating is supposed to be fun, not depressing.
8. Keep from defining yourself by people you DON’T want to meet. It is enough that your profile says you don’t want to meet somebody who is a liar, who is overweight or who is chronically unemployed. It is not necessary to over emphasize the matter by using this to introduce yourself to others.
9. Never forget to spell-check. You can do this by writing your profile in a word document, spell-checking it, then cutting and pasting the text into the profile area of the dating website.
10. Tell the truth as much as possible. However, reveal only information that won’t harm you in any way. Tell people about who you really are, the type of work you do, your family background, etc. But, for your safety avoid mentioning information regarding how much money you make, or how many businesses you own, as well as any information of this nature that could be used to harm or defraud you.

vrijdag 10 augustus 2012

Advantages of Online Dating

With the advantages of online dating becoming more obvious all the time, it’s no wonder the industry itself is continually growing. Gone are the days of smoke filled bars and clubs trying to get to know someone. Online dating gives you the opportunity to view a single’s profile before you have even contacted them.
Getting to know someone from the comfort of your own home is an affordable luxury with online dating. There is no guesswork involved either of whether the other person is single, because they are all single. And they are all there to find a compatible partner.
Arrive home from work, login, and check your inbox. There’s no need to wait until Friday night, or Saturday night to start dating. There are no unsociable hours online, it’s a twenty four hour lifestyle.
With no need to dress up as no one can see what an online dater is wearing, there is no need to spend hours getting ready. Comfort is the only concern when dating online.
Every detail of a prospective date is there in black and white. The things they love in life, their desires, and what they want out of life. An insight into someone’s personality is instantly recognisable.
Once someone has found an interesting looking profile, an e-mail or instant message is all it takes to get some possible conversation going. If the recipient likes the look of the senders profile then an online relationship is ready to bloom.
After getting to know someone the first date can be at that new coffee bar that’s in need of a test. A nice quiet date to continue the connection someone has made online. Or maybe an excuse is needed to try out the new restaurant in town.
Evenings out with friends can be spent enjoying yourself again. There’s no need to spend the night trying to find someone to start a relationship with. You will have a new air of confidence about you. And when all your friends find out the “how’s” and “where’s”, they will soon be enjoying the advantages of online dating as well.

maandag 23 juli 2012

10 Tips To Online Senior Dating

Years ago, the grocery store was the best place to meet a potential new love interest. Today, online dating is quickly becoming the singles hot spot with individuals around the world looking to meet someone new. Photo profiles that detail personal information is becoming the norm in online dating and gives individuals an opportunity to see what a potential mate looks like on paper before taking the next step.
If you are considering online dating, there are a few tips that can help make the experience a more enjoyable and successful one.
Online Dating Tip # 1
Find someone who shares your common interest, life goals and family preferences. It is important to share some of the same hopes in order for a relationship to be worthwhile.
Online Dating Tip # 2
Use caution when giving out personal information, including your full name, address or telephone number. At first, provide nothing more than an e-mail address.
Online Dating Tip # 3
During casual conversations, look for possible warning signs of control, jealousy or tempers.
Online Dating Tip # 4
If an individual seems to be extremely needy or needs to talk to you every minute, this may be a sign of possessive behavior and should be recognized early. If you notice this happening, move on and find another possible online dating match.
Online Dating Tip # 5
Don’t be afraid to ask questions. It’s perfectly normal to inquire about marital status, children, hopes, dreams, etc. If someone is uncomfortable with these questions, it’s a good indication they have something to hide.
Online Dating Tip # 6
Don’t rush. Take the time to get to know someone before you decide that you are comfortable enough to meet them. A relationship takes time to build and there is no reason to rush into anything.
Online Dating Tip # 7
If you learn that someone hasn’t been honest about his/her profile or other detail, end the dating potential immediately. Dishonesty is no way to begin a relationship and it makes you question anything else that he/she may be hiding.
Online Dating Tip # 8
With honesty in mind, it is important that you be honest in your profile and with anyone whom you are having an online dating relationship with. If and when the relationship is ready to move to the next level, it will be too late to correct anything that wasn’t truthful and the chance of a relationship will likely be lost.
Online Dating Tip # 9
If you plan to meet someone in person, do so in a public place. Preferably, the meeting time would be early in the day or the afternoon. It is never a good idea to meet a perfect stranger at dark or in a secluded area.
Online Dating Tip # 10
Be yourself. Don’t pretend to like something or be someone that you are not just to please the other person. If they are the right one for you, there will not be a reason to pretend.

zaterdag 7 juli 2012

7 Tips For Dating Older Woman

Men are interested in dating older women because they are more experienced and more capable of
handling relationships smoothly. Older women are more mature, financially independent, and good
lovers.
Younger men have been attracted to older women  for a long time. This happens because older women are mature, know what expect from life, and do  not care about what ‘neighbors say’.  If in the past this was a big shame, today these couples are not keeping in secret anymore their relationship.

Dating older woman can be a nice and exciting  experience. If you are a person interested in
dating older woman, you must think before because there are good parts and bad parts.
Some of the bad parts are that she has passed over in life and has many worries. She has ex-
boyfriends, husbands, children's, pending divorces, financial obligations, debts. Maybe
your friends will consider you a hero, but your friends will talk about you, frown upon you.
Remember that she is older than you are, has life experience, so she is often in control, and would
like to manipulate you.

The good part is that she knows a lot about female- male relationships. She knows very well
what she wants and from whom and they usually looking for a man that consider like them that
compatibility and open communication are  more important than age. They do not need a man to
take care of them. Older women are forthright and honest and they will tell you right off, what she
thinks about you so you do not have to wonder where you stand with her.

It is necessary that you find an older woman who is interested in a younger man. You will have
bigger chances of success to win her heart .If  you already have a date with her, do not blow up.
Here are some helpful tips for attracting her. Be yourself. She is dating you because she likes
you; you offer her spontaneity and fun. So, do not even think about impersonating someone that
you are not. Take her somewhere she has never been before;
show her that you are different from other men your age. Invite her at a jazz club, concert or
an exotic restaurant.

You must change the topic of your discussions. Ask about her job, hobbies, what type of music
she likes... Lady is smart, confident and mature, so do not discuss about age. You should be
confident too.
Be spontaneous. Offer her something that people her age cannot, like excitement in and out of the
bed. She is usually not looking for a serious  relationship - she just wants to have fun.
However, it is true that older women can do a lot for a younger man – besides sex.
Do not compare her to your ex. This would not make her feel better with you. The older woman
can feel comfortable being with you even if you are younger and it will be at ease with your
presence. Make her feel important and show her  that you are interested in her.
You have to have the same intensity about life like her. You must know that an older woman will
never wake you in the middle of the night to ask what you are thinking, and this should not bother
to you.

Do not move too fast. You know that she is not looking to make fast a family, because she
already had one and that one failed. Maybe she already has children’s and this will complicate
things. You should always be willing to accept the complications that come with dating an older
woman.

zaterdag 30 juni 2012

6 Tips For Safe Online Senior Dating

There is no doubt that online dating can put you in touch with some great people and you may just end up finding your Prince Charming or Dream Girl as the case may be. However, online dating is not without its risks. This is why I have put together these online dating safety tips which will help you to have a fun experience, while keeping yourself out of harms way.
1. Your safety lesson in online dating starts from your profile itself. Make sure not to reveal exact personal details (real name, telephone numbers, street addresses etc) in your profile for everyone to see. For the first few weeks you should communicate with other daters only through the message system that is available on the sites. This personal messaging system keeps your name and contact details anonymous so that you can get to know the other person without revealing your true identity. Once you feel you know someone well enough, you can then disclose your personal details and also set up a date. And in case you do end up communicating with someone who turns out to be a creep (they are unfortunately unavoidable), your real identity will be protected.
2. Once you do set up a date with an online friend, always ensure that you do not ask them to come over to your home on the first date itself. No, you should not even have them pick you up at home. Instead, arrange to meet up at the designated spot.
3. If you have a friend who is also into online dating, you could get together with your friend and have a double date. This way, you won't be alone when you meet your online friend, and you will also have someone to get away with in case your date turns out to be a bore!
4. Never ever agree to have your first date in a private or secluded spot. You may think that this is very basic advice, but you'll be amazed (perhaps shocked may be a better word!) to know that countless people still make this mistake and end up in prospectively dangerous situations. You should pick an open and public place for your date; say a restaurant, the park, etc. If you do decide to go to another place with your date, do not get into the car with them. Take your own vehicle or call and ask a friend to take you there. Yes, all this may seem like too much trouble, but better to be safe than sorry!
5. Avoid drinking alcohol on your first date. If you must, make sure you have just a couple of drinks and no more. Ask the waiter or the bar tender to serve you. If you have left the drink for any reason, perhaps to visit the rest room, do not have the same drink when you do return.
6. Before you leave for your date, make sure a friend or relative knows where you are going and when to expect you back. If something untoward does happen, you at least know that someone will be out looking for you.
Thus, by keeping these online dating safety tips in mind, you can rest easy that you are doing all you can to protect yourself. And with that worry off your mind, you are free to go out and have a whale of a time with your new online date!

woensdag 13 juni 2012

5 Tips for getting Dozens of Dates Online

Are you tired of not getting any dates?  The club and bar scene has dried up and isn’t the best place to meet women.  People have the tendency to lie and drink too much in clubs.  Make no mistake about it, right now online dating is where the dating world is.  Meeting dates online have a lot of benefits.
• It’s easy practice, even if you are shy
• Instead of being judged by your looks, you will judged by your profile and personality
• If you meet someone who is annoying, you can just log off
• You can check up to 200 profiles in a half hour, all possibilities
• It’s a lot easier to get to know people when you can’t see them
Don’t worry, the online dating scene isn’t just for losers and middle aged men anymore.  In fact, recent reports have shown that the major dating sites are approximately 60-70% women.
So is it possible to meet an attractive mate online? Absolutely but you have to follow the right steps or you will just end up wasting your money on web.  Here are some tips to land yourself a date tonight.
1. Pick the right website – To pay for a site or not?  There are a lot of great free websites out there like Plenty Of Fish and Just Say Hi.  The fact of the matter is, most pay websites will usually yield better results though. 
2. Write an effective personal ad – No matter how you look, how old you are, or how much hair you have, THE most important part of online dating is your personal ad.  If you can make a profile that is attractive you will have no problems meeting new people in no time.  An effective profile will multiply the response you get.  Keep it light and funny.  Don’t be negative or mention how desperate you are. 
3. Give compliments sparingly – One thing that will turn people off quicker than anything else is if they feel that you are not being honest with them.  If you give too many compliments, too quickly people will think that you have an ulterior motive.  Don’t make that mistake!
4. Don’t rush to meet up – The great part about meeting people online is that you have the opportunity to get to know them before you meet them.  The reality is that this is a dangerous world and while it isn’t likely that you will meeting a psycho, it is always a possibility.  Take your time and get to know you new love interest before you met them, it will also make you look less desperate.
5. Don’t Send too many messages – If you send too many messages too soon you will come off as needy.  No one wants someone who is too needy.  When chatting online, you have the opportunity to take your time and think out your messages. 
Good luck with all your new dates.  Have fun with it.  for reviews of the absolute BEST eBooks on online dating.